My girlfriend is foolishly in love with a man who talks trash about her, how do I tell her
My 36-year-old school friend innocently in love with this guy who calls her names just for being in love. Names are not mentioned for privacy reason, however, I think women should be respected. I’m going to call the 2 People involve John and Ellie for now, John thinks Ellie is desperate because she is almost 37 and still single.
Ellie genuinely loves and care for John not because she expects anything in return, but I mean every woman wants to be loved and respected.
Ellie is a very hard-working career woman who hardly has time to go out to mingle. They met at the train station on her way back from work, Ellie is madly in love with John.
On the other hand, John is afraid of commitment couple with a very terrible attitude. I got to know John at Ellie’s Birthday. John is a very smart guy who knows how to play games just to get what he wants.
The first 6 weeks of their relationship John demanded $1500 from Ellie to sort out a family problem, and the very submissive girlfriend, took to her saving just to please the lover boy. Note: not once, not twice, to a point she had started feeding on her credit card even though she works.
John tells his friend nasty things about Ellie and everything they do together to everyone who cares to listen. Recently, Ellie had an argument with him and he told her he’s not interested in the relationship anymore.
Being that I’m the only friend who John respect, she begged me to go talk to him,”this is hard” I said to myself, knowing his intention toward her, I reluctantly called him to meet with him. Behold, I heard the unbelievable, the unimaginable words from John. “Why is your friend desperate to get me hooked,” John said.
“However, I have someone else I want to marry, I acknowledge that she has helped me a lot. But I’m done, I’m no more interested in the relationship,” he added.
I felt stupid for even having a conversation with this arrogant and disrespectful human. Now, the questions are, why are some woman disrespecting themselves all in the name of having a man in their lives. She pays the bills, feeds him, clothes him, and yet, you’re been called a desperate single girl for doing all
She is deeply in love, How do I tell her the truth.
Do I wait for her to see the reality or tell her the truth, at least let her get hurt once and move on? Use the comment section below, your advice is appreciated